Sunday, February 10, 2013
Change Ain’t Easy!
Change Ain’t Easy!
Received this in an email this week. It is from an inscription on a tombstone. Got me to thinking about the “difficulty” of change thus this lesson!
“When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,
I dreamed of changing the world.
As I grew older and wiser I discovered the world would not change –
So I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country,
But it too seemed immovable.
As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt,
I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me,
But alas, they would have none of it.
And now I realize as I lie on my deathbed, if I had only changed myself first,
Then by example I might have changed my family,
From their inspiration and encouragement I would then have been able to better my country,
And who knows, I might have even changed the world.”
Suppose you could change anything about yourself, where would you start? Lots of us would start on the outside. Would you be . . .Skinnier? Taller? Shorter? Better looking?
Would you change . . .Your eyes? Your hair? Your teeth? Your legs? Your bulges?
If you could wave a magic wand and change your outward appearance, would it be a light touch-up or an extreme makeover? Would we even recognize you?
All of us probably all go through periods where we want to change our outward appearance. But isn’t it hard to do?
But as hard as it is to change on the outside, it seems infinitely harder to change on the inside. If there is anything we know about human nature, it is that people change slowly, if they change at all. Think about the struggles of your own life. What would you change about yourself on the inside if you could?
Would it be an impatient spirit?
Would it be a critical tongue?
Would it be envy of those around you?
Would it be a spirit of discontentment?
Would it be lingering resentment?
Would it be lust you can’t conquer?
Would it be financial mismanagement?
Would it be a guilty conscience?
Would it be an inability to work with others?
Would it be overbearing stubbornness?
Would it be a judgmental spirit?
Would it be a quick temper?
Would it be profound discouragement?
Would it be an inability to appreciate life?
Would it be an ungrateful spirit?
Would it be a disorganized life?
Would it be an inability to say no?
Would it be a mean streak you can’t seem to get rid of?
We all want to change something, but we don’t know how to do it and we don’t know where to begin. We all dream of being something different and better than the person we are today.
But change is hard, isn’t it? Let’s see what the Bible says by looking at one of the better-known verses in the New Testament:
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. (Romans 12:2).
Knowledge of the Bible is very important. We all should spend time learning and studying the Bible. But knowledge alone will not save us and knowledge alone will certainly not change us. We’ve got to do something with the knowledge we have.
Change is not easy and it’s not supposed to be easy. If it were easy, anyone could do it.
Most of us change very slowly, if we change at all. And few of us make any lasting changes except under pressure and as a result of personal pain. There is no growth without struggle. We all have heard the phrase “No pain, no gain.”
Long-held habits can be changed, but it won’t happen overnight. Patterns of sin can be broken, but it will take more than a quick prayer at the end of a worship service. You can see significant growth in your spiritual life, but it won’t come without a cost.
As long as our life is going well, why should we change? When we are around people whatever is in our heart will come out sooner or later. If we’ve got a tendency to cut corners, our friends will spot it. If we fudge on the truth, if we are a chronic excuse-maker, if we have a critical spirit, if we have a root of bitterness, or if we are just a difficult person to be around, all of it is bound to come out eventually.
And there is some benefit to this. The revealing of weakness always involves personal pain. But the benefit comes from seeing the truth about ourselves, warts and all.
Now at last you can do something about it. That “something” is what Romans 12:2 is all about. It tells us that we can be transformed when our minds are renewed. How does that happen?
1) We must be transfigured on the inside.
Note the word “transform.” The Greek word for “transformed” in Romans 12:2 is related to the English word metamorphosis. You will recall from 7th-grade science class that metamorphosis is the process by which a caterpillar becomes a butterfly. It’s a gradual change on the inside that produces a total transformation on the outside. Remember in Mark’s Gospel, “Jesus took Peter, James, and John, and led them up a high mountain to be alone. “Jesus’ appearance was transformed, and his clothes became dazzling white, far whiter than any earthly bleach could ever make them.” (Mark 9:2-3). When Jesus was transformed, he did not cease to be Jesus. He was still who he had been moments before, but for a brief time, the curtain was pulled back, so to speak, and James, Peter and John saw as much of the true divinity of Christ as any man can see and still live. In that moment they saw the “real Jesus,” the true Son of God from heaven. He did not cease to be a man, but his true identity was revealed to them”
Consider what happens when a caterpillar enters the cocoon, only to emerge later as a butterfly. The caterpillar doesn’t change its basic nature.
Caterpillars can’t fly. But they were born to fly. When the caterpillar changes into a butterfly, it becomes what God always intended it to be.
Now just study a caterpillar for a moment. You can’t tell by looking at a caterpillar that one day it will fly. It seems impossible.
You never know how someone will turn out.
When the apostle John said that “we are already God’s children, but he has not yet shown us what we will be like when Christ appears. But we do know that we will be like him, for we will see him as he really is.” (1 John 3:2), he was talking about our future when we are with the Lord in heaven. But it is also true in this life. God is in the transformation business, and you can’t tell who will end where or what plans God has for you and me tomorrow.
God is determined that we will all be like Jesus in the end. Romans 8:29 says "For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son.”
A famous sculptor once said “In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect. Then I cut away everything that didn’t look like this mental image.”
Now apply this to the spiritual life. All of us are works-in-progress. We’re not finished, not glorified, not perfected, not completed. We’re all “under construction.” If you’ve ever visited a construction site, you know that it is noisy and looks messy. While the hammering and sawing continues, it’s hard to imagine what the final result will be. But God never stops working on us because there is so much work that needs to be done.
*If you concentrate on your weakness, you will lose your confidence.
*If you concentrate on God’s faithfulness, you will grow in confidence.
What makes us think that God will ever finish the job? Picture God as a sculptor working with a rough piece of marble. He’s working on a big chunk named “_______.” (Insert our name here.) It’s a hard job because the chunk is badly marred, misshapen, discolored, and cracked in odd places. It’s about the worst piece of marble a sculptor could ever find. But God is undeterred and he works patiently at his job, chipping away the bad parts, chiseling an image into the hard stone, stopping occasionally to polish here and there. One day he finally finishes one section of the statue. The next morning when he returns to the studio that section is messed up. “I thought I finished that yesterday,” he says, “Who’s been messing with my statue?”
It turns out that we’re the culprit. We are our own worst enemy. What we thought would improve things has only messed them up. But God is faithful. He patiently picks up his chisel and goes back to work. He’s chipping away everything that doesn’t look like Jesus. In my case, it’s evident that he has a long way to go. But I am encouraged by the certain knowledge that he won’t quit half-way through a project. What God starts, he finishes. You can take that to the bank.
2) We must reprogram our minds.
Sometimes we get “squishy” about the spiritual life. This means that we think in purely emotional terms. If only we can “feel” the presence of the Lord, then we know we are moving in the right direction. As important as feelings are, and they do matter greatly, Paul here put the emphasis on the renewing of the mind.
How do we change “the way we think” as Paul writes in Romans 12:2? Or as the NIV Bible says “renewing of your mind”. The answer is actually simple though it is the work of a lifetime. Desire must be combined with discipline. The transformation of the mind takes time, and it takes a determination to develop those habits of holiness.
And we need Godly encouragement. It is hard to grow spiritually without being around others who can encourage us to make wise choices on a daily basis.
So we need to “choose our friends wisely” because we will become like our friends and our friends will become like us. The right friends make it easier for us to grow in the Lord and the wrong friends make it much harder.
Romans 12:2 teaches us about spiritual metamorphosis. God intends that we will slowly but surely be transformed into the image of Christ.
It will not happen by accident.
It does not happen overnight.
It cannot happen without the Holy Spirit.
It happens when we make a personal commitment.
It happens with the godly encouragement of other Christians.
It happens as we become what God made us to be.
It happens as we behold the glory of Jesus Christ.
We must pursue the Lord so that we may know him better and better. Then and only then will we be transformed by the renewing of our mind.
Ruth Graham, wife of Billy Graham, has this engraved on her tombstone: “End of construction. Thank you for your patience.”
Shhhh. Listen!! Do you hear the faint sound of hammering and sawing on the inside? Quiet. When God is finally finished, you will be like Jesus.
Monday, February 4, 2013
I Will Let You Choose
I Will Let You Choose
Meet Edwin Thomas, a master of the stage. During the latter half of the 1800s, this small man with the huge voice had few rivals. When it came to performance on the stage, Edwin Thomas was in a select group.
When it came to tragedy in life, the same could be said as well. Edwin had a brother, John. He also was an actor but never was as successful as Edwin.
The brother, John on a crisp April night in 1865, stole quietly into the rear of a box in the Washington theater and fired a bullet at the head of Abraham Lincoln. Yes, the last name of the brothers was Booth—Edwin Thomas Booth and John Wilkes Booth.
Edwin was never the same after that night. Shame from his brother’s crime drove him into retirement. He might never have returned to the stage had it not been for a twist of fate at a New Jersey train station. Edwin was awaiting his coach when a well-dressed young man, pressed by the crowd, lost his footing and fell between the platform and a moving train. Without hesitation, Edwin locked a leg around a railing, grabbed the man, and pulled him to safety. After the sighs of relief, the young man recognized the famous Edwin Booth.
Edwin, however, didn’t recognize the young man he’d rescued. That knowledge came weeks later in a letter, a letter he carried in his pocket to the grave. A letter from General Adams Budeau, chief secretary to General Ulysses S. Grant. A letter thanking Edwin Booth for saving the life of the child of an American hero, Abraham Lincoln.
How ironic that while one brother killed the president, the other brother saved the president’s son. The boy Edwin Booth yanked to safety? Robert Todd Lincoln.
Edwin and John Booth. Same father, mother, profession and passion—yet one chooses life, the other, death. How could it happen? No one can say for sure, but it does. Though their story is dramatic, it’s not unique.
Abel and Cain, both sons of Adam. Abel chooses God. Cain chooses murder. And God lets him. Abraham and Lot, both pilgrims in Canaan. Abraham chooses God. Lot chooses Sodom. And God lets him. David and Saul, both kings of Israel. David chooses God. Saul chooses power. And God lets him. Peter and Judas, both deny their Lord. Peter seeks mercy. Judas seeks death. And God lets him.
In every age of history, on every page of Scripture, the truth is revealed: God allows us to make our own choices. And no one delineates this more clearly than Jesus. According to Him, we can choose:
• a narrow gate or a wide gate
• a narrow road or a wide road
• the big crowd or the small crowd
“You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it.” (Matt. 7:13-14)
We can choose to:
• be “like a person who builds a house on solid rock. Or be “like a person who builds a house on sand.” (Matt. 7:24-27)
• serve God or wealth. “No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” (Matt. 6:24)
• be numbered among the sheep or the goats “All the nations will be gathered in his presence, and he will separate the people as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will place the sheep at his right hand and the goats at his left.” (Matt. 25:32-33)
Let’s consider that Friday at Calvary. Ever wonder why there were two crosses next to Christ? Why not six or 10? Ever wonder why Jesus was in the center? Why not on the far right or far left? Could it be that the two crosses on the hill symbolize one of God’s greatest gifts? The gift of choice.
The two criminals have so much in common. Convicted by the same system. Condemned to the same death. Surrounded by the same crowd. Equally close to the same Jesus. In fact, they both begin with the same sarcasm: “The two criminals also said cruel things to Jesus” (Matt. 27:44, CEV). But one changed.
One of the criminals hanging beside him scoffed, “So you’re the Messiah, are you? Prove it by saving yourself—and us, too, while you’re at it!” But the other criminal protested, “Don’t you fear God even when you have been sentenced to die? We deserve to die for our crimes, but this man hasn’t done anything wrong.” Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your Kingdom.” And Jesus replied, “I assure you, today you will be with me in paradise.”
(Luke 23:39-43).
Much has been said about the prayer of the repentant thief, and it certainly warrants our admiration. But while we rejoice at the thief who changed, dare we forget the one who didn’t? What about him, Jesus? Wouldn’t a personal invitation be appropriate? Wouldn’t a word of persuasion be timely?
Does not the shepherd leave the 99 sheep and pursue the one lost? Does not the housewife sweep the house until the lost coin is found? Yes, the shepherd does, the housewife does; but the father of the prodigal, remember, does nothing.
• The sheep was lost innocently.
• The coin was lost irresponsibly.
• But the prodigal son left intentionally
The father gave him the choice. Jesus gave both criminals the same.
There are times when God sends thunder to stir us. There are times when God sends blessings to lure us. But then there are times when God sends nothing but silence as He honors us with the freedom to choose. And one of the choices He allows us is where we spend eternity!
And what an honor it is! In so many areas of life we have no choice. Think about it. We didn’t choose our gender. We didn’t choose our parents or siblings. We didn’t choose our race or place of birth.
Sometimes our lack of choices angers us. “It’s not fair,” we say. It’s not fair that I was born in poverty or that I sing so poorly or that I run so slowly. But the scales of life were forever tipped on the side of fairness when God planted a tree in the garden of Eden and told Adam and Eve not to eat it’s fruit. The only instruction given to them. But Adam and his descendants (this includes us) were given free will, the freedom to make whatever eternal choice we desire. Any injustice in this life is offset by the honor of choosing our destiny in the next.
Wouldn’t you agree? Would you have wanted otherwise? Would you have preferred the opposite? You choose everything in this life, and He chooses where you spend the next? You choose the size of your nose, the color of your hair, and your DNA structure, and He chooses where you spend eternity? Is that what you would prefer?
It would have been nice if God had let us order life like we order a meal. I’ll take good health and a high IQ. I’ll pass on the music skills, but give me a fast metabolism...Would’ve been nice. But it didn’t happen. When it came to our life on earth, we weren’t given a voice or a vote. But when it comes to life after death, we were. Wouldn’t you agree that this seems like a good deal?
Have we been given any greater privilege than that of choice? Not only does this privilege offset any injustice, the gift of free will can offset any mistakes.
Think about the thief who repented. Though we know little about him, we know this: He made some bad mistakes in life. He chose the wrong crowd, the wrong morals, the wrong behavior. But would you consider his life a waste? Is he spending eternity reaping the fruit of all the bad choices he made? No, just the opposite. He is enjoying the fruit of the one good choice he made. In the end all his bad choices were redeemed by a solitary good one.
We’ve all made some bad choices in life, haven’t we? We’ve chosen the wrong friends, maybe the wrong career, even the wrong spouse. We look back over our life and say, “If only...if only I could make up for those bad choices.” We can. One good choice for eternity offsets a thousand bad ones on earth.
The choice is ours.
How can two brothers be born of the same mother, grow up in the same home, and one choose life and the other choose death? We don’t know, but they do.
How could two men see the same Jesus and one choose to mock Him and the other choose to pray to Him? We don’t know, but they did. And when one prayed, Jesus loved him enough to save him. And when the other mocked, Jesus loved him enough to let him.
He allowed him the choice.
He does the same for us.
“So fear the LORD and serve him wholeheartedly. Put away forever the idols your ancestors worshiped when they lived beyond the Euphrates River and in Egypt. Serve the LORD alone. But if you refuse to serve the LORD, then choose today whom you will serve. Would you prefer the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates? Or will it be the gods of the Amorites in whose land you now live? But as for me and my family, we will serve the LORD.” Joshua 24:14-15
Meet Edwin Thomas, a master of the stage. During the latter half of the 1800s, this small man with the huge voice had few rivals. When it came to performance on the stage, Edwin Thomas was in a select group.
When it came to tragedy in life, the same could be said as well. Edwin had a brother, John. He also was an actor but never was as successful as Edwin.
The brother, John on a crisp April night in 1865, stole quietly into the rear of a box in the Washington theater and fired a bullet at the head of Abraham Lincoln. Yes, the last name of the brothers was Booth—Edwin Thomas Booth and John Wilkes Booth.
Edwin was never the same after that night. Shame from his brother’s crime drove him into retirement. He might never have returned to the stage had it not been for a twist of fate at a New Jersey train station. Edwin was awaiting his coach when a well-dressed young man, pressed by the crowd, lost his footing and fell between the platform and a moving train. Without hesitation, Edwin locked a leg around a railing, grabbed the man, and pulled him to safety. After the sighs of relief, the young man recognized the famous Edwin Booth.
Edwin, however, didn’t recognize the young man he’d rescued. That knowledge came weeks later in a letter, a letter he carried in his pocket to the grave. A letter from General Adams Budeau, chief secretary to General Ulysses S. Grant. A letter thanking Edwin Booth for saving the life of the child of an American hero, Abraham Lincoln.
How ironic that while one brother killed the president, the other brother saved the president’s son. The boy Edwin Booth yanked to safety? Robert Todd Lincoln.
Edwin and John Booth. Same father, mother, profession and passion—yet one chooses life, the other, death. How could it happen? No one can say for sure, but it does. Though their story is dramatic, it’s not unique.
Abel and Cain, both sons of Adam. Abel chooses God. Cain chooses murder. And God lets him. Abraham and Lot, both pilgrims in Canaan. Abraham chooses God. Lot chooses Sodom. And God lets him. David and Saul, both kings of Israel. David chooses God. Saul chooses power. And God lets him. Peter and Judas, both deny their Lord. Peter seeks mercy. Judas seeks death. And God lets him.
In every age of history, on every page of Scripture, the truth is revealed: God allows us to make our own choices. And no one delineates this more clearly than Jesus. According to Him, we can choose:
• a narrow gate or a wide gate
• a narrow road or a wide road
• the big crowd or the small crowd
“You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it.” (Matt. 7:13-14)
We can choose to:
• be “like a person who builds a house on solid rock. Or be “like a person who builds a house on sand.” (Matt. 7:24-27)
• serve God or wealth. “No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” (Matt. 6:24)
• be numbered among the sheep or the goats “All the nations will be gathered in his presence, and he will separate the people as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will place the sheep at his right hand and the goats at his left.” (Matt. 25:32-33)
Let’s consider that Friday at Calvary. Ever wonder why there were two crosses next to Christ? Why not six or 10? Ever wonder why Jesus was in the center? Why not on the far right or far left? Could it be that the two crosses on the hill symbolize one of God’s greatest gifts? The gift of choice.
The two criminals have so much in common. Convicted by the same system. Condemned to the same death. Surrounded by the same crowd. Equally close to the same Jesus. In fact, they both begin with the same sarcasm: “The two criminals also said cruel things to Jesus” (Matt. 27:44, CEV). But one changed.
One of the criminals hanging beside him scoffed, “So you’re the Messiah, are you? Prove it by saving yourself—and us, too, while you’re at it!” But the other criminal protested, “Don’t you fear God even when you have been sentenced to die? We deserve to die for our crimes, but this man hasn’t done anything wrong.” Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your Kingdom.” And Jesus replied, “I assure you, today you will be with me in paradise.”
(Luke 23:39-43).
Much has been said about the prayer of the repentant thief, and it certainly warrants our admiration. But while we rejoice at the thief who changed, dare we forget the one who didn’t? What about him, Jesus? Wouldn’t a personal invitation be appropriate? Wouldn’t a word of persuasion be timely?
Does not the shepherd leave the 99 sheep and pursue the one lost? Does not the housewife sweep the house until the lost coin is found? Yes, the shepherd does, the housewife does; but the father of the prodigal, remember, does nothing.
• The sheep was lost innocently.
• The coin was lost irresponsibly.
• But the prodigal son left intentionally
The father gave him the choice. Jesus gave both criminals the same.
There are times when God sends thunder to stir us. There are times when God sends blessings to lure us. But then there are times when God sends nothing but silence as He honors us with the freedom to choose. And one of the choices He allows us is where we spend eternity!
And what an honor it is! In so many areas of life we have no choice. Think about it. We didn’t choose our gender. We didn’t choose our parents or siblings. We didn’t choose our race or place of birth.
Sometimes our lack of choices angers us. “It’s not fair,” we say. It’s not fair that I was born in poverty or that I sing so poorly or that I run so slowly. But the scales of life were forever tipped on the side of fairness when God planted a tree in the garden of Eden and told Adam and Eve not to eat it’s fruit. The only instruction given to them. But Adam and his descendants (this includes us) were given free will, the freedom to make whatever eternal choice we desire. Any injustice in this life is offset by the honor of choosing our destiny in the next.
Wouldn’t you agree? Would you have wanted otherwise? Would you have preferred the opposite? You choose everything in this life, and He chooses where you spend the next? You choose the size of your nose, the color of your hair, and your DNA structure, and He chooses where you spend eternity? Is that what you would prefer?
It would have been nice if God had let us order life like we order a meal. I’ll take good health and a high IQ. I’ll pass on the music skills, but give me a fast metabolism...Would’ve been nice. But it didn’t happen. When it came to our life on earth, we weren’t given a voice or a vote. But when it comes to life after death, we were. Wouldn’t you agree that this seems like a good deal?
Have we been given any greater privilege than that of choice? Not only does this privilege offset any injustice, the gift of free will can offset any mistakes.
Think about the thief who repented. Though we know little about him, we know this: He made some bad mistakes in life. He chose the wrong crowd, the wrong morals, the wrong behavior. But would you consider his life a waste? Is he spending eternity reaping the fruit of all the bad choices he made? No, just the opposite. He is enjoying the fruit of the one good choice he made. In the end all his bad choices were redeemed by a solitary good one.
We’ve all made some bad choices in life, haven’t we? We’ve chosen the wrong friends, maybe the wrong career, even the wrong spouse. We look back over our life and say, “If only...if only I could make up for those bad choices.” We can. One good choice for eternity offsets a thousand bad ones on earth.
The choice is ours.
How can two brothers be born of the same mother, grow up in the same home, and one choose life and the other choose death? We don’t know, but they do.
How could two men see the same Jesus and one choose to mock Him and the other choose to pray to Him? We don’t know, but they did. And when one prayed, Jesus loved him enough to save him. And when the other mocked, Jesus loved him enough to let him.
He allowed him the choice.
He does the same for us.
“So fear the LORD and serve him wholeheartedly. Put away forever the idols your ancestors worshiped when they lived beyond the Euphrates River and in Egypt. Serve the LORD alone. But if you refuse to serve the LORD, then choose today whom you will serve. Would you prefer the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates? Or will it be the gods of the Amorites in whose land you now live? But as for me and my family, we will serve the LORD.” Joshua 24:14-15
Monday, January 28, 2013
What Do You Do When The Wine Runs Out?
What Do You Do When The Wine Runs Out?
2 The next day there was a wedding celebration in the village of Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2 and Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the celebration. 3 The wine supply ran out during the festivities, so Jesus’ mother told him, “They have no more wine.” 4 “Dear woman, that’s not our problem,” Jesus replied. “My time has not yet come.” 5 But his mother told the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”
6 Standing nearby were six stone water jars, used for Jewish ceremonial washing. Each could hold twenty to thirty gallons. 7 Jesus told the servants, “Fill the jars with water.” When the jars had been filled, 8 he said, “Now dip some out, and take it to the master of ceremonies.” So the servants followed his instructions.
9 When the master of ceremonies tasted the water that was now wine, not knowing where it had come from (though, of course, the servants knew), he called the bridegroom over. 10 “A host always serves the best wine first,” he said. “Then, when everyone has had a lot to drink, he brings out the less expensive wine. But you have kept the best until now!”
11 This miraculous sign at Cana in Galilee was the first time Jesus revealed his glory. And his disciples believed in him. John 2:1-11
The first miracle of our Lord took place in a town called, Cana of Galilee. The event was a wedding. Cana was a inconspicuous little town that lay outside of Nazareth. Cana had no social prominence in its day!
It’s interesting to note: Jesus ministry, like his birth, began in a small, unimportant town, to common everyday folks.
Weddings were, and are, a big deal in the Jewish culture. There is a certain protocol that was to be followed. The wedding ceremony would take place late in the evening after a time of feasting. The father of the bride would take his daughter on his arm, and with the wedding party in tow, would parade through the streets of the village so that everyone could come out and congratulate the bride. Finally the wedding party would arrive at the home of the groom. The wedding actually took place in the front door of the groom’s house. It was no short ceremony….no the festivities lasted for days. It was a time of great celebration.
The groom’s family was expected to provide all the refreshments for this week of festivities.
Suddenly the host discovers that they are running out of wine. They had more guests than they anticipated. It would have been improper for the culture of this time to not have wine. Jews did not get drunk at these celebrations—drunkenness was considered a disgrace. But the host would have been totally humiliated if he ran out of food or drink!
Evidently they did not have the money to go and purchase more wine. We can assume that Jesus’ mother was a close friend of the groom’s mother and she heard about the problem. Who knows, if these families were close friends it is highly possible that Jesus was a close friend of the groom himself.
Jesus’ mother comes to Jesus and says, “Son, we’ve got a problem here, and we need your help.” “They have no more wine.”
The fact that Mary came to Jesus with such a problem is a reminder that Jesus is concerned with the everyday things in life that we face.
Jesus answers his mother in what seems like a harsh way. He was not being harsh, he was just simply already focusing on his life and ministry, and had began to detach himself from his family.
John calls this first miracle a sign. Signs are usually placed in places to give us information, or point us in the direction. The miracles of Christ were always meant to reveal to us the glory of God, and point us to who He truly is.
Let’s take a look at what this first sign means for us today.
Notice that first of all…
This sign informs us that…The wine can run out. Mary realizes the seriousness of the issue. You can hear it in her words… “They have no wine.” To the Jewish people wine symbolized joy. The Jewish rabbis had a saying, ‘Without wine there is no joy.” At the wedding in Cana their joy had run out!
It is a reminder of the emptiness of our life without Christ. This statement by the mother of Jesus goes beyond liquid refreshment at a wedding. It is symbolic of our lives. It is a scary thing when the “wine runs out.”
There are times when the wine runs out. The joy is dry! And you and I have no resources available within ourselves to replace the joy. Only new wine can come from Jesus Christ.
When we run out of wine …
This sign teaches us that…When the wine runs out, Jesus can turn the water into wine.
Mary came to Jesus and told him of the problem that they were facing. I can just imagine her telling the groom’s mother, “You hold on just a minute! I know just what to do with this situation.” She came to Jesus and told him…how about her instructions to the servants. “Whatever he says to you, do it” Just Do It!
Jesus took the water pots that were filled with water for hand washing. When the guest arrived someone would pour some of this water over their hands in a symbolic purification. To eat with unwashed hands would have been a defilement. Jesus took this water and made approx. 180 gallons of wine. What a wedding gift.
It’s interesting to note that Jesus took the water for purification and used it for his first miracle. The water in those pots was merely for an external cleansing. Jesus ministry over the next three years would teach people about an inner cleansing.
If we look at the first miracle of Jesus we see this truth…Jesus is not just the giver of joy…he is the giver of “abundant” joy. He not only met their immediate need, but he gave an abundance.
a. Jesus did not just make some ordinary wine. No, the wine that he produced was better than that which they had started the celebration with.
b. Jesus didn’t just doctor the water so that it tasted like wine. No, the water in those pots was transformed into the finest wine the people had ever tasted.
c. The truth for us is this—Jesus is not going to just doctor up our lives a little bit. Just put a Band-Aid on our needs—no he wants to transform our lives, just like he transformed that water. Our lives will take on a new nature.
Someone once said, “Don’t focus on the stone water pots—and miss the whole point—Jesus is about transformation.
He turned…
• water into wine;
• he turns frowns into smiles;
• he turns whimpers of fear into songs of hope;
• he turns deserts into gardens,
• he turns sorrow into joy;
• he turns sin into grace;
• death into life.
Jesus is all about transforming power. Changing people—that’s what it’s all about.
This Sign teaches us that…Jesus offers an abundance of new wine at the end.
Sometimes it’s hard for us to understand God not only meeting our need but providing for us an abundance. But that’s the story of grace. There is no measure to grace. There will always be enough grace to meet our needs. That’s the story of God’s love. There is nothing that you can do that will cause God to diminish his love for you. Understand this principle of God today…God is not just a God of the required—he is a God of the abundance.
10 Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies, “I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in! Try it! Put me to the test! (Malachi 3:10) Not “just enough”—an abundance
Look at creation—have you ever been to the Smokies? There is an over abundance. God didn’t give us “just enough” beauty, it is all around us. Have you ever been to the seashore and looked out over the ocean. There is far more beauty that our eyes can absorb. Have you ever seen a field of wildflowers? Not just enough to fill a vase in your living room, but more than enough. This is the picture of grace…God always gives more than you will ever need!
So the wine is poured out and all the people who are present rejoice at the richness of this “new wine”. This was completely against custom. The best wine was always offered first. Isn’t that just like our Lord? The best always comes at the end. The grace we once tasted cautiously—we now drink freely. Jesus has poured out in us the richness of his love and forgiveness. There is one among us who is pouring out the rich “wine” and there is enough for everyone!
What do you do when the wine runs out? Mary showed us by example. She told the servants that if they would just do what Jesus commanded they would see a miracle. A miracle that not only met their immediate need...but a miracle of abundance.
Has your joy ran out today? Jesus wants to transform you! Bring your need to him!
Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a loyal spirit within me.11 Do not banish me from your presence, and don’t take your Holy Spirit from me. 12 Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and make me willing to obey you. (Psalm 51:10-12)
2 The next day there was a wedding celebration in the village of Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2 and Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the celebration. 3 The wine supply ran out during the festivities, so Jesus’ mother told him, “They have no more wine.” 4 “Dear woman, that’s not our problem,” Jesus replied. “My time has not yet come.” 5 But his mother told the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”
6 Standing nearby were six stone water jars, used for Jewish ceremonial washing. Each could hold twenty to thirty gallons. 7 Jesus told the servants, “Fill the jars with water.” When the jars had been filled, 8 he said, “Now dip some out, and take it to the master of ceremonies.” So the servants followed his instructions.
9 When the master of ceremonies tasted the water that was now wine, not knowing where it had come from (though, of course, the servants knew), he called the bridegroom over. 10 “A host always serves the best wine first,” he said. “Then, when everyone has had a lot to drink, he brings out the less expensive wine. But you have kept the best until now!”
11 This miraculous sign at Cana in Galilee was the first time Jesus revealed his glory. And his disciples believed in him. John 2:1-11
The first miracle of our Lord took place in a town called, Cana of Galilee. The event was a wedding. Cana was a inconspicuous little town that lay outside of Nazareth. Cana had no social prominence in its day!
It’s interesting to note: Jesus ministry, like his birth, began in a small, unimportant town, to common everyday folks.
Weddings were, and are, a big deal in the Jewish culture. There is a certain protocol that was to be followed. The wedding ceremony would take place late in the evening after a time of feasting. The father of the bride would take his daughter on his arm, and with the wedding party in tow, would parade through the streets of the village so that everyone could come out and congratulate the bride. Finally the wedding party would arrive at the home of the groom. The wedding actually took place in the front door of the groom’s house. It was no short ceremony….no the festivities lasted for days. It was a time of great celebration.
The groom’s family was expected to provide all the refreshments for this week of festivities.
Suddenly the host discovers that they are running out of wine. They had more guests than they anticipated. It would have been improper for the culture of this time to not have wine. Jews did not get drunk at these celebrations—drunkenness was considered a disgrace. But the host would have been totally humiliated if he ran out of food or drink!
Evidently they did not have the money to go and purchase more wine. We can assume that Jesus’ mother was a close friend of the groom’s mother and she heard about the problem. Who knows, if these families were close friends it is highly possible that Jesus was a close friend of the groom himself.
Jesus’ mother comes to Jesus and says, “Son, we’ve got a problem here, and we need your help.” “They have no more wine.”
The fact that Mary came to Jesus with such a problem is a reminder that Jesus is concerned with the everyday things in life that we face.
Jesus answers his mother in what seems like a harsh way. He was not being harsh, he was just simply already focusing on his life and ministry, and had began to detach himself from his family.
John calls this first miracle a sign. Signs are usually placed in places to give us information, or point us in the direction. The miracles of Christ were always meant to reveal to us the glory of God, and point us to who He truly is.
Let’s take a look at what this first sign means for us today.
Notice that first of all…
This sign informs us that…The wine can run out. Mary realizes the seriousness of the issue. You can hear it in her words… “They have no wine.” To the Jewish people wine symbolized joy. The Jewish rabbis had a saying, ‘Without wine there is no joy.” At the wedding in Cana their joy had run out!
It is a reminder of the emptiness of our life without Christ. This statement by the mother of Jesus goes beyond liquid refreshment at a wedding. It is symbolic of our lives. It is a scary thing when the “wine runs out.”
There are times when the wine runs out. The joy is dry! And you and I have no resources available within ourselves to replace the joy. Only new wine can come from Jesus Christ.
When we run out of wine …
This sign teaches us that…When the wine runs out, Jesus can turn the water into wine.
Mary came to Jesus and told him of the problem that they were facing. I can just imagine her telling the groom’s mother, “You hold on just a minute! I know just what to do with this situation.” She came to Jesus and told him…how about her instructions to the servants. “Whatever he says to you, do it” Just Do It!
Jesus took the water pots that were filled with water for hand washing. When the guest arrived someone would pour some of this water over their hands in a symbolic purification. To eat with unwashed hands would have been a defilement. Jesus took this water and made approx. 180 gallons of wine. What a wedding gift.
It’s interesting to note that Jesus took the water for purification and used it for his first miracle. The water in those pots was merely for an external cleansing. Jesus ministry over the next three years would teach people about an inner cleansing.
If we look at the first miracle of Jesus we see this truth…Jesus is not just the giver of joy…he is the giver of “abundant” joy. He not only met their immediate need, but he gave an abundance.
a. Jesus did not just make some ordinary wine. No, the wine that he produced was better than that which they had started the celebration with.
b. Jesus didn’t just doctor the water so that it tasted like wine. No, the water in those pots was transformed into the finest wine the people had ever tasted.
c. The truth for us is this—Jesus is not going to just doctor up our lives a little bit. Just put a Band-Aid on our needs—no he wants to transform our lives, just like he transformed that water. Our lives will take on a new nature.
Someone once said, “Don’t focus on the stone water pots—and miss the whole point—Jesus is about transformation.
He turned…
• water into wine;
• he turns frowns into smiles;
• he turns whimpers of fear into songs of hope;
• he turns deserts into gardens,
• he turns sorrow into joy;
• he turns sin into grace;
• death into life.
Jesus is all about transforming power. Changing people—that’s what it’s all about.
This Sign teaches us that…Jesus offers an abundance of new wine at the end.
Sometimes it’s hard for us to understand God not only meeting our need but providing for us an abundance. But that’s the story of grace. There is no measure to grace. There will always be enough grace to meet our needs. That’s the story of God’s love. There is nothing that you can do that will cause God to diminish his love for you. Understand this principle of God today…God is not just a God of the required—he is a God of the abundance.
10 Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my Temple. If you do,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies, “I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in! Try it! Put me to the test! (Malachi 3:10) Not “just enough”—an abundance
Look at creation—have you ever been to the Smokies? There is an over abundance. God didn’t give us “just enough” beauty, it is all around us. Have you ever been to the seashore and looked out over the ocean. There is far more beauty that our eyes can absorb. Have you ever seen a field of wildflowers? Not just enough to fill a vase in your living room, but more than enough. This is the picture of grace…God always gives more than you will ever need!
So the wine is poured out and all the people who are present rejoice at the richness of this “new wine”. This was completely against custom. The best wine was always offered first. Isn’t that just like our Lord? The best always comes at the end. The grace we once tasted cautiously—we now drink freely. Jesus has poured out in us the richness of his love and forgiveness. There is one among us who is pouring out the rich “wine” and there is enough for everyone!
What do you do when the wine runs out? Mary showed us by example. She told the servants that if they would just do what Jesus commanded they would see a miracle. A miracle that not only met their immediate need...but a miracle of abundance.
Has your joy ran out today? Jesus wants to transform you! Bring your need to him!
Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a loyal spirit within me.11 Do not banish me from your presence, and don’t take your Holy Spirit from me. 12 Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and make me willing to obey you. (Psalm 51:10-12)
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Who Do You Think You Are?
Who Do You Think You Are?
How to Find Your True Identity in Christ
Who are you? That’s a question many people struggle to answer.
Too often, people base their identities on what they do (from their jobs to their roles in relationships), defining themselves by those pursuits. But by doing so, they significantly limit their lives. The truth is that God intends for all people to find their identity in Christ.
If you’re a Christian, your identity encompasses all the abundance of being a beloved child of God. Here’s how you can start living your life fully in Christ, keeping in mind that:
You’re a saint. The fact that we’ve placed our trust in Jesus Christ is enough to qualify us to be a saint. Even though we’ll still struggle with sin (Even the Apostle Paul said “I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.” Romans 7:15) while we live in this fallen world, our core identity as a Christian is as a saint, not a sinner – and we can always count on Jesus’ help to overcome sin in our lives. As John tells us, “My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ,..” (1 John 2:1) Rely on His help to resist temptation. When we do sin, confess and repent. ‘There is forgiveness of sins for all who repent.’ (Luke 24:47b)
Maintain attitudes of humility and gratitude for God’s grace.
You’re blessed. God has given us the greatest blessing of all – Himself. No matter what other blessings God may or may not choose to send into our lives, we can always be confident that God Himself will be with us, loving us, and working everything in our life out for good purposes when we trust Him to do so. This leads us to a scripture that is sometimes the hardest for us to understand: “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” (Romans 8:28)
God also brings many different, specific blessings into our life regularly. We should make a habit of reflecting on those blessings every day and thanking Him for them. The Psalmist writes “Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD, the people he chose for his inheritance.” (Psalm 33:12)
You’re saved. Thanks to Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross, we’re saved from: sin, death, Satan, our old human nature, and a pattern of worldly living. Paul writes to the church in Rome that, “Everyone who calls on the name of the LORD will be saved.” (Romans10:13) We can respond in gratitude to our salvation by doing good works that God has prepared for us to do, to help others discover relationships with Him and help redeem this fallen world.
You’re reconciled. Jesus has spiritually reconciled us to God and other believers. “For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people’s sins against them. And he gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation.” (2 Corinthians 5:19)
Since God plans for all Christians – from all the diverse types of backgrounds on Earth – to live harmoniously together in heaven forever, we should do our best to live harmoniously here and now. We need to let the Holy Spirit help us be peaceful, humble, and compassionate toward other people.
You’re afflicted. Everyone in this fallen world – Christians and non-Christians alike – must endure suffering. Jesus Himself told us this in John 16:33 that “Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows”. However, as a Christian, our suffering can accomplish good, redemptive purposes. Rather than asking “Why?” when we suffer, ask “Who?” instead, shifting our focus from trying to figure out something that we may not be able to understand and toward seeking God Himself, who promises to always be with us. “The sufferings of the present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” (Rom. 8:18) And, “If we endure we shall also reign with Him.” (II Tim. 2:12) We need to ask Jesus to use the suffering we experience to make us more like Him and point more people to Him.
You’re heard. God always hears and responds to our prayers when we’re connected to Him through Jesus. We can feel free to confidently express any of our thoughts and feelings to God at any time, expecting Him to listen to us and answer our prayers according to what’s best for us. The Apostle John tells us we can approach God and “that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us” (1 John 5:14) And the Psalmist says that “I love the LORD because he hears my voice and my prayer for mercy.” Psalm 116:1
You’re gifted. God has given each of us special abilities that He wants us to use in the Christian ministry work He calls us to do – both inside our church, and out in our community. You can discover those gifts by asking yourself questions like: “Whom/where do you have a passion to serve?”, What do you have a burden to do?”, “What needs do you see in the church?”, “What do you find joy in doing for others?”, “What opportunities has God already provided for you to serve others?”, “What things are you best at and have the most success in?”, “What have godly people commended you for doing?”, and “What acts of service have given you the deepest sense of satisfaction?” The Bible has a lot to say about gifts. This is just one scripture that focuses on our Spirit given gifts: “In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.” (Romans 12:6-8)
You’re new. Jesus placed a new spirit within us when we began a relationship with Him, so, at our core, we’re a new person than who we were before we became a Christian. Look at what the Bible says: “…. anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” (2 Corinthians 5:17) Wow!!
However, we will keep learning and growing every day for the rest of our life as we gradually become more like Jesus.
You’re forgiven. Since Jesus paid the price that God’s justice demands for our sin and took God’s wrath for us upon Himself, we were forgiven for all of our sins when we placed our trust in Jesus. Just look at this powerful scripture: ‘if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. (1 John 1:9)
We can thank Jesus for forgiving us by obeying His commands to forgive others who have harmed us and to seek forgiveness from people we’ve harmed. Forgiving others is big deal with God. Jesus said “… if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:15)
You’re adopted. As a Christian, we’ve been adopted into God’s family. The work of our big brother – Jesus – on the cross has made it possible for us to become one of the sons or daughters of God the Father. The Bible says “you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are his children, we are his heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share his glory, we must also share his suffering.” (Romans 8:15-17) So we need to make it our main goal of life to learn how to know, love, and trust God as our Father.
You’re loved. While the people who love us can’t do so completely unselfishly, continually, or perfectly, God does. As a Christian, nothing can ever separate us from God’s great love for us. Look at this wonderful promise: “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons] neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:38-39)
You’re rewarded. God will reward us for everything faithful and holy that we do as a Christian. Although we can’t earn our salvation, after we’ve been saved we can earn rewards in heaven for the work we do serving God on Earth. “Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Remember that the Lord will give you an inheritance as your reward, and that the Master you are serving is Christ.” (Colossians 3:23-24)
You’re victorious. Jesus has given us the power to ultimately overcome evil, sin, and death. We must use the spiritual weapons at our disposal as a Christian (truth, righteousness, the Gospel, faith, salvation, scripture, prayer, and the strength to stand) in spiritual battles, trusting that we can always emerge victorious. And this is backed up by scripture: “For sin is the sting that results in death, and the law gives sin its power. But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Corinthians 15:56)
How to Find Your True Identity in Christ
Who are you? That’s a question many people struggle to answer.
Too often, people base their identities on what they do (from their jobs to their roles in relationships), defining themselves by those pursuits. But by doing so, they significantly limit their lives. The truth is that God intends for all people to find their identity in Christ.
If you’re a Christian, your identity encompasses all the abundance of being a beloved child of God. Here’s how you can start living your life fully in Christ, keeping in mind that:
You’re a saint. The fact that we’ve placed our trust in Jesus Christ is enough to qualify us to be a saint. Even though we’ll still struggle with sin (Even the Apostle Paul said “I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.” Romans 7:15) while we live in this fallen world, our core identity as a Christian is as a saint, not a sinner – and we can always count on Jesus’ help to overcome sin in our lives. As John tells us, “My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ,..” (1 John 2:1) Rely on His help to resist temptation. When we do sin, confess and repent. ‘There is forgiveness of sins for all who repent.’ (Luke 24:47b)
Maintain attitudes of humility and gratitude for God’s grace.
You’re blessed. God has given us the greatest blessing of all – Himself. No matter what other blessings God may or may not choose to send into our lives, we can always be confident that God Himself will be with us, loving us, and working everything in our life out for good purposes when we trust Him to do so. This leads us to a scripture that is sometimes the hardest for us to understand: “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” (Romans 8:28)
God also brings many different, specific blessings into our life regularly. We should make a habit of reflecting on those blessings every day and thanking Him for them. The Psalmist writes “Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD, the people he chose for his inheritance.” (Psalm 33:12)
You’re saved. Thanks to Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross, we’re saved from: sin, death, Satan, our old human nature, and a pattern of worldly living. Paul writes to the church in Rome that, “Everyone who calls on the name of the LORD will be saved.” (Romans10:13) We can respond in gratitude to our salvation by doing good works that God has prepared for us to do, to help others discover relationships with Him and help redeem this fallen world.
You’re reconciled. Jesus has spiritually reconciled us to God and other believers. “For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people’s sins against them. And he gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation.” (2 Corinthians 5:19)
Since God plans for all Christians – from all the diverse types of backgrounds on Earth – to live harmoniously together in heaven forever, we should do our best to live harmoniously here and now. We need to let the Holy Spirit help us be peaceful, humble, and compassionate toward other people.
You’re afflicted. Everyone in this fallen world – Christians and non-Christians alike – must endure suffering. Jesus Himself told us this in John 16:33 that “Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows”. However, as a Christian, our suffering can accomplish good, redemptive purposes. Rather than asking “Why?” when we suffer, ask “Who?” instead, shifting our focus from trying to figure out something that we may not be able to understand and toward seeking God Himself, who promises to always be with us. “The sufferings of the present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” (Rom. 8:18) And, “If we endure we shall also reign with Him.” (II Tim. 2:12) We need to ask Jesus to use the suffering we experience to make us more like Him and point more people to Him.
You’re heard. God always hears and responds to our prayers when we’re connected to Him through Jesus. We can feel free to confidently express any of our thoughts and feelings to God at any time, expecting Him to listen to us and answer our prayers according to what’s best for us. The Apostle John tells us we can approach God and “that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us” (1 John 5:14) And the Psalmist says that “I love the LORD because he hears my voice and my prayer for mercy.” Psalm 116:1
You’re gifted. God has given each of us special abilities that He wants us to use in the Christian ministry work He calls us to do – both inside our church, and out in our community. You can discover those gifts by asking yourself questions like: “Whom/where do you have a passion to serve?”, What do you have a burden to do?”, “What needs do you see in the church?”, “What do you find joy in doing for others?”, “What opportunities has God already provided for you to serve others?”, “What things are you best at and have the most success in?”, “What have godly people commended you for doing?”, and “What acts of service have given you the deepest sense of satisfaction?” The Bible has a lot to say about gifts. This is just one scripture that focuses on our Spirit given gifts: “In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.” (Romans 12:6-8)
You’re new. Jesus placed a new spirit within us when we began a relationship with Him, so, at our core, we’re a new person than who we were before we became a Christian. Look at what the Bible says: “…. anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” (2 Corinthians 5:17) Wow!!
However, we will keep learning and growing every day for the rest of our life as we gradually become more like Jesus.
You’re forgiven. Since Jesus paid the price that God’s justice demands for our sin and took God’s wrath for us upon Himself, we were forgiven for all of our sins when we placed our trust in Jesus. Just look at this powerful scripture: ‘if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness. (1 John 1:9)
We can thank Jesus for forgiving us by obeying His commands to forgive others who have harmed us and to seek forgiveness from people we’ve harmed. Forgiving others is big deal with God. Jesus said “… if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:15)
You’re adopted. As a Christian, we’ve been adopted into God’s family. The work of our big brother – Jesus – on the cross has made it possible for us to become one of the sons or daughters of God the Father. The Bible says “you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. And since we are his children, we are his heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share his glory, we must also share his suffering.” (Romans 8:15-17) So we need to make it our main goal of life to learn how to know, love, and trust God as our Father.
You’re loved. While the people who love us can’t do so completely unselfishly, continually, or perfectly, God does. As a Christian, nothing can ever separate us from God’s great love for us. Look at this wonderful promise: “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons] neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:38-39)
You’re rewarded. God will reward us for everything faithful and holy that we do as a Christian. Although we can’t earn our salvation, after we’ve been saved we can earn rewards in heaven for the work we do serving God on Earth. “Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Remember that the Lord will give you an inheritance as your reward, and that the Master you are serving is Christ.” (Colossians 3:23-24)
You’re victorious. Jesus has given us the power to ultimately overcome evil, sin, and death. We must use the spiritual weapons at our disposal as a Christian (truth, righteousness, the Gospel, faith, salvation, scripture, prayer, and the strength to stand) in spiritual battles, trusting that we can always emerge victorious. And this is backed up by scripture: “For sin is the sting that results in death, and the law gives sin its power. But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Corinthians 15:56)
Sunday, January 13, 2013
We CAN Make a Difference
We CAN Make a Difference
A minister wore a carnation on his lapel every Sunday morning. He never gave it much thought until one day after church, a visiting boy about ten years old asked if he could have it. The minister handed it to him and asked him why he wanted it.
He said his grandmother takes care of him and feeds him and buys him clothes. The boy said that is why he wanted the flower, to give to his grandmother for loving him.
The minister could barely keep the tears back, but told the boy that he didn’t want the carnation. He said that for a reason that special, he needed a bouquet. He told the boy to go up front and get the big bunch of flowers in front of his pulpit and give them to his grandmother.
As the boy smiled and turned to go get them, the minister heard him say, “What a wonderful day – I asked for one flower and got a whole bouquet.”
How often do we brighten up the lives of others with special acts like this? More to the point, how often do we look for these opportunities? Each one of us can make a tremendous difference in other people’s lives. You don’t have to be rich or especially talented. All you have to be is loving. No matter what your circumstances, you can make a positive difference in other people’s lives.
WHY TRY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
There are several reasons we should try to make a difference in other people’s lives. We could say one of those reasons is that the world actually depends on it. Can you imagine a world where nobody cared about anybody else? Can you imagine a world where nobody tried to ever help anybody else?
The world we live in depends on people helping people. We depend on the world giving food and aid when there is a Tsunami or a gigantic earthquake. Think of all the help we have gotten form the C.A.R.E group (and others) here in Pleasant Grove after the tornado. And they are still here helping! We depend on the world to help when one nation unfairly attacks another, such as when Iraq invaded Kuwait. We would never survive if people didn’t try to help each other. Without compassionate people, this world would collapse into absolute satanic chaos.
We should also try to make a difference in other people’s lives because it makes such a wonderful difference in ours when we do. We are never told how the Good Samaritan felt after helping the man alongside the road, or how Paul felt when he helped deliver the money to a church in Jerusalem, but they both probably felt very good.
There was a teacher who, at Thanksgiving, had asked her third grade class to draw a picture of something they were thankful for. She was sure that many of the underprivileged kids in her class wouldn’t really have anything to be thankful for. When the drawing were turned in, there were the turkeys and drawings of family, but one in particular got her attention. It was a picture of a hand.
She wondered if the child was drawing a parent’s hand or maybe even God’s hand. When she asked the little boy whose hand it was, he said, “It’s your hand, Teacher, because you are good to me and you care for me."
Just like this little boy, we can always find something to be thankful for, and there is always somebody in our life that we can help, IF we care enough to look for the many opportunities that exist.
As much as people need others to lend them a helping hand, there is one thing needed even more. People need somebody to reach out to them with a hand full of the love of Christ. There is no better way to strengthen your heart than to lift someone else up in the love of Jesus.
We are talking about helping people. Think for a moment about all the people we have known over the years. When we think about all the chances we’ve had to help these people throughout the year, how many can we really remember helping? Some say we shouldn’t get involved in other people’s lives, but that just isn’t right. Certainly we cannot be nosey, but we can, and should, offer our help.
Another reason we need to reach out to help in Jesus’ name is because we are expected to by God.
In Mathew 28:19, Jesus tells us to “Therefore, go and make disciples …”. He didn’t say if we felt like it, He said “go”.
I think that means that we are expected to reach out to others and make a difference in their lives; a difference for God, because if we will but introduce others to Christ, He will make a difference in their lives.
Jesus didn’t say to go and be happy. He didn’t say go and make money. He didn’t even say go to church and then go home. He said go and make disciples. The word disciples means one who embraces and assists in the spreading of a teaching. Certainly we embrace the teaching of Jesus, don’t we? And if we do, we are called and expected to assist in the spreading of that teaching. And that is the best way of all in which to help someone else.
So we should try to make a difference to others because – the world depends on it, it makes us feel very good, and God expects it. No, actually He demands it!
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
Look through the Bible. The people who made a difference were not people of great talent or knowledge or anything else. They were just average people like you and me who were honest and sincere.
Someone wrote that to work for God, you have to be F.A.T. That stands for FAITHFUL, AVAILABLE, and TEACHABLE.
Certainly, many Christians are faithful in their belief that Jesus is the Son of God and our only Savior. Not all of those Christians are always available to help others, though. And many Christians do not let themselves become teachable, because to do that, they would have to be open to new ideas, and to be able to change some of their ideas, and they won’t do it. This is so sad!
But there are many who will do all that is necessary to reach out to help others.
You will find that many people actually resist trying to help others because that means they would have to get up and go, or get up and do. That is okay, because many of the people in the Bible who helped resisted at first, too.
Look at Moses. He tried his best to keep from going to Pharaoh. ( “But Moses protested again….” Exodus 4:1) But when he finally did what God told him to do, look at the tremendous impact he made for the Lord.
God told Jonah to go to Nineveh. What did he do? “..Jonah got up and went in the opposite direction to get away from the LORD. (Jonah 1:3) He found a ship and “He bought a ticket and went on board, hoping to escape from the LORD. (Jonah 1:3) And most of us know what happened then – can we said “big fish”? He didn’t catch it, it caught him. (Jonah 1:4-17) He finally did what God wanted, too, and because of that, an entire city was saved.
Peter was chosen to be Jesus’ disciple, yet out of fear, he even denied that he knew Jesus. (Mark14:66-72) But Peter was given another chance and became a very great man “preacher”.
We can say we aren’t all that qualified. And that would be true but as Paul writes we “can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.” (Phil. 4:13) And Paul, who has probably brought more people to the feet of Jesus than anyone else was not an eloquent speaker.
We see how feeble Paul’s qualifications were in 1 Corinthians 2:3-4. ”I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. And my message and my preaching were very plain. Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit.”
Billy Graham almost quit early on because he lacked confidence in his abilities. Now we can look back and see how many people he has introduced to Jesus as Christ.
We must realize that God does not call the qualified, but he does qualify the called. He wants us to work for Him. If we refuse, we will pay a price for that decision. (Remember Jonah?) And it doesn’t matter how big a laundry list of excuses we come up with, none are valid. But if we do His work, we will reap a reward better than our minds are able to understand.
King David was a man after God’s own heart, and he was one of the greatest difference makers in the Bible, but he started off a lowly shepherd; so unimportant that his own father forgot to mention him when Samuel came looking for the King of Israel.
And look at Mary. A simple and young peasant girl. Absolutely nothing outstanding about her, yet God chose her to carry the Christ child. Look at the difference she made.
In fact, look at the differences all these people made. None were qualified. None were overly smart, rich, talented, or anything else. But they did have one thing in common. What was it? They all had a heart the loved God and wanted to serve Him.
Too often, we aren’t available to work for God because we are very comfortable people, and in our comfort, we expect God to come down and let us work for him in the way we find, well – the way we find most comfortable to us. This is not how God works, however. God expects each one of us to sacrifice. He wants us to sacrifice our comfort zones so that we will have to depend on Him.
In 1 Corinthians 1:27-28, we see why God wants to use all of us. “…. God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important.”
God is love and the most important lesson he wants us to learn on earth is how to love. It is in loving that we are most like him, so love is the foundation of every command he has given us; “the whole Law can be summed up in this one command; ‘Love others as you love yourself.’” (Galatians 5:14)
God uses people like us. Has God used you to touch others? Would you want God to use you as His special envoy to help others? If you want Him to, He will, but we have to be willing to let God use us.
A minister wore a carnation on his lapel every Sunday morning. He never gave it much thought until one day after church, a visiting boy about ten years old asked if he could have it. The minister handed it to him and asked him why he wanted it.
He said his grandmother takes care of him and feeds him and buys him clothes. The boy said that is why he wanted the flower, to give to his grandmother for loving him.
The minister could barely keep the tears back, but told the boy that he didn’t want the carnation. He said that for a reason that special, he needed a bouquet. He told the boy to go up front and get the big bunch of flowers in front of his pulpit and give them to his grandmother.
As the boy smiled and turned to go get them, the minister heard him say, “What a wonderful day – I asked for one flower and got a whole bouquet.”
How often do we brighten up the lives of others with special acts like this? More to the point, how often do we look for these opportunities? Each one of us can make a tremendous difference in other people’s lives. You don’t have to be rich or especially talented. All you have to be is loving. No matter what your circumstances, you can make a positive difference in other people’s lives.
WHY TRY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
There are several reasons we should try to make a difference in other people’s lives. We could say one of those reasons is that the world actually depends on it. Can you imagine a world where nobody cared about anybody else? Can you imagine a world where nobody tried to ever help anybody else?
The world we live in depends on people helping people. We depend on the world giving food and aid when there is a Tsunami or a gigantic earthquake. Think of all the help we have gotten form the C.A.R.E group (and others) here in Pleasant Grove after the tornado. And they are still here helping! We depend on the world to help when one nation unfairly attacks another, such as when Iraq invaded Kuwait. We would never survive if people didn’t try to help each other. Without compassionate people, this world would collapse into absolute satanic chaos.
We should also try to make a difference in other people’s lives because it makes such a wonderful difference in ours when we do. We are never told how the Good Samaritan felt after helping the man alongside the road, or how Paul felt when he helped deliver the money to a church in Jerusalem, but they both probably felt very good.
There was a teacher who, at Thanksgiving, had asked her third grade class to draw a picture of something they were thankful for. She was sure that many of the underprivileged kids in her class wouldn’t really have anything to be thankful for. When the drawing were turned in, there were the turkeys and drawings of family, but one in particular got her attention. It was a picture of a hand.
She wondered if the child was drawing a parent’s hand or maybe even God’s hand. When she asked the little boy whose hand it was, he said, “It’s your hand, Teacher, because you are good to me and you care for me."
Just like this little boy, we can always find something to be thankful for, and there is always somebody in our life that we can help, IF we care enough to look for the many opportunities that exist.
As much as people need others to lend them a helping hand, there is one thing needed even more. People need somebody to reach out to them with a hand full of the love of Christ. There is no better way to strengthen your heart than to lift someone else up in the love of Jesus.
We are talking about helping people. Think for a moment about all the people we have known over the years. When we think about all the chances we’ve had to help these people throughout the year, how many can we really remember helping? Some say we shouldn’t get involved in other people’s lives, but that just isn’t right. Certainly we cannot be nosey, but we can, and should, offer our help.
Another reason we need to reach out to help in Jesus’ name is because we are expected to by God.
In Mathew 28:19, Jesus tells us to “Therefore, go and make disciples …”. He didn’t say if we felt like it, He said “go”.
I think that means that we are expected to reach out to others and make a difference in their lives; a difference for God, because if we will but introduce others to Christ, He will make a difference in their lives.
Jesus didn’t say to go and be happy. He didn’t say go and make money. He didn’t even say go to church and then go home. He said go and make disciples. The word disciples means one who embraces and assists in the spreading of a teaching. Certainly we embrace the teaching of Jesus, don’t we? And if we do, we are called and expected to assist in the spreading of that teaching. And that is the best way of all in which to help someone else.
So we should try to make a difference to others because – the world depends on it, it makes us feel very good, and God expects it. No, actually He demands it!
WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
Look through the Bible. The people who made a difference were not people of great talent or knowledge or anything else. They were just average people like you and me who were honest and sincere.
Someone wrote that to work for God, you have to be F.A.T. That stands for FAITHFUL, AVAILABLE, and TEACHABLE.
Certainly, many Christians are faithful in their belief that Jesus is the Son of God and our only Savior. Not all of those Christians are always available to help others, though. And many Christians do not let themselves become teachable, because to do that, they would have to be open to new ideas, and to be able to change some of their ideas, and they won’t do it. This is so sad!
But there are many who will do all that is necessary to reach out to help others.
You will find that many people actually resist trying to help others because that means they would have to get up and go, or get up and do. That is okay, because many of the people in the Bible who helped resisted at first, too.
Look at Moses. He tried his best to keep from going to Pharaoh. ( “But Moses protested again….” Exodus 4:1) But when he finally did what God told him to do, look at the tremendous impact he made for the Lord.
God told Jonah to go to Nineveh. What did he do? “..Jonah got up and went in the opposite direction to get away from the LORD. (Jonah 1:3) He found a ship and “He bought a ticket and went on board, hoping to escape from the LORD. (Jonah 1:3) And most of us know what happened then – can we said “big fish”? He didn’t catch it, it caught him. (Jonah 1:4-17) He finally did what God wanted, too, and because of that, an entire city was saved.
Peter was chosen to be Jesus’ disciple, yet out of fear, he even denied that he knew Jesus. (Mark14:66-72) But Peter was given another chance and became a very great man “preacher”.
We can say we aren’t all that qualified. And that would be true but as Paul writes we “can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.” (Phil. 4:13) And Paul, who has probably brought more people to the feet of Jesus than anyone else was not an eloquent speaker.
We see how feeble Paul’s qualifications were in 1 Corinthians 2:3-4. ”I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. And my message and my preaching were very plain. Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit.”
Billy Graham almost quit early on because he lacked confidence in his abilities. Now we can look back and see how many people he has introduced to Jesus as Christ.
We must realize that God does not call the qualified, but he does qualify the called. He wants us to work for Him. If we refuse, we will pay a price for that decision. (Remember Jonah?) And it doesn’t matter how big a laundry list of excuses we come up with, none are valid. But if we do His work, we will reap a reward better than our minds are able to understand.
King David was a man after God’s own heart, and he was one of the greatest difference makers in the Bible, but he started off a lowly shepherd; so unimportant that his own father forgot to mention him when Samuel came looking for the King of Israel.
And look at Mary. A simple and young peasant girl. Absolutely nothing outstanding about her, yet God chose her to carry the Christ child. Look at the difference she made.
In fact, look at the differences all these people made. None were qualified. None were overly smart, rich, talented, or anything else. But they did have one thing in common. What was it? They all had a heart the loved God and wanted to serve Him.
Too often, we aren’t available to work for God because we are very comfortable people, and in our comfort, we expect God to come down and let us work for him in the way we find, well – the way we find most comfortable to us. This is not how God works, however. God expects each one of us to sacrifice. He wants us to sacrifice our comfort zones so that we will have to depend on Him.
In 1 Corinthians 1:27-28, we see why God wants to use all of us. “…. God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important.”
God is love and the most important lesson he wants us to learn on earth is how to love. It is in loving that we are most like him, so love is the foundation of every command he has given us; “the whole Law can be summed up in this one command; ‘Love others as you love yourself.’” (Galatians 5:14)
God uses people like us. Has God used you to touch others? Would you want God to use you as His special envoy to help others? If you want Him to, He will, but we have to be willing to let God use us.
Monday, December 31, 2012
How to Make a Fresh Start
How to Make a Fresh Start
How many of us would like to have a fresh start in our Christian life? Many of us have made many mistakes in our lives as Christians. We have experienced many setbacks and failures throughout our lives. Sometimes we allow these mistakes, these setbacks and failures to enslave us to the point that we never enjoy the full Christian life that God has given us to enjoy.
In John 10:10 Jesus said, “I have come that they (Believers) may have life, and have it to the full.” Then he goes on to tell us that there is an adversary, called the Devil, that seeks to “steal, kill and destroy” that life. The Devil will remind us of our past in order to keep us from enjoying the life that God gave us to live. The Devil does not want us to have a fresh start in life.
The good news is, God says, “I want you to have a fresh start in life, I want you to have a new beginning, I want to do something new and exciting in your life.” Maybe in the past we’ve said, “I am going to grow in my relationship with God. I am going to pray more, read my Bible more and get more involved in my church. I’m going to spend more quality time with my family. ” The list could go on. The fact is all of us have made some mistakes or we made some bad decision that hindered us from doing those things that wanted to do.
Well the good news is according to Psalm103:12, the Lord “has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. Forget about what’s happened before. He says don’t think about the past. It’s over. We need to understand that God is far more interested in our future than He is in our past. So it’s not to late to “start over”.
Maybe that is where you are right now! You feel that you have made so many mistakes, you have failed God so many times and you have sinned it all away. Now God doesn’t want anything to do with you. You feel and believe that you have no future with God. The good news is, God is saying, “ It’s not over, I have plans for your life. I am about to do something new for you. ”
Let’s look at a formula for starting over. S.T.A.R.T. Hopefully, we will remember this and pass it along to friends when they have failures. We or someone we know may have really blown it and maybe made some decisions really regret. Regardless of the failure we’ve had in our life, here’s how we can start over.
S – Stop making excuses.
If we want a fresh start in life, we have to stop making excuses for our failures. We’ve got to stop blaming other people. We’ve got to stop seeing ourselves as the victim of “our” circumstances.
Other people can hurt us, other people can harm us, and other people can scar us. But the only person that can ruin our lives is us. Nobody can ruin our lives without our permission. We have a choice and can choose how we’re going to respond to those hurts. It is hard to get people to admit when they are wrong. People do not like to admit, “I made a mistake, and I blew it.” The Bible says that the starting point is to just be honest and accept responsibility for our part in the problem.
“People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy.” (Proverbs 28:13)
T - Take An Inventory Of Our Lives
We need to take an inventory of our lives. That means we need to evaluate all our experiences. We need to look at what we have left after the failure. We need to take an inventory of our life’s experiences and learn from them.
"Have you experienced so much for nothing? Surely it was not in vain, was it?" Galatians 3:4
Learn from our mistakes. Failure can be our friend or our foe. We determine if failure will be our friend or foe by the way we react to it. We can choose to learn from it or choose to repeat it. If we learn from it then it can be our friend. However, if we don’t learn from it is our foe.
There are four kinds of experiences that God uses to shape our lives.
• He uses personal experiences. The family that you grew up in, the people you relate to. God can use your personal experience with your husband or your wife. He uses personal experiences to shape you.
• He uses vocational and educational experiences to shape you.
• He uses spiritual experiences to shape us, like coming to church, going on a retreat or reading our Bibles, having a quiet time.
• He uses painful experiences to shape us
As we take inventory of our lives in starting over, we need to ask - what have I learned? There are people 40, 50 years old but they don’t have 40 or 50 years of experience. They’ve had the same year of experience over and over. They’ve never learned anything. We need to learn from our failures.
A - Act in faith
We have to launch out into new territory. In other words “get out of the boat”. The Bible says that the key to changing anything is faith. If we want to change our circumstance, it takes faith. If we want to change our personality, it takes faith. If we want to change anything in our life, we have to have some faith.
Jesus says this in Matthew 9. ““Because of your faith, it will happen.” That is a very simple statement but it’s very powerful.
What are we expecting in life? Are things going to be better or worse? Are they going to be the same? If we act in faith then we will do something positive to ensure that we don’t repeat the same mistakes over.
To start acting in faith means we’ve got to stop having a pity party. We’ve got to stop feeling sorry for ourselves. “Poor me! I’m such a victim. Life is unfair.” Of course life is unfair! Whoever said it was fair? Jesus said, “Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows.” (John 16:33) This world is filled with sin and because of that, life is unfair. But we have to go on with life anyway.
Stop worrying about what others say or think. Proverbs 29:25 says " Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but trusting the LORD means safety.”
R - Refocus
We need to refocus our thoughts if we want to change our lives. If we want to get going again, if we want a fresh start, we need to rework the way that we think. We probably need to change our minds about a number of issues. Paul tells us to “…let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.” (Romans 12:2) and “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. (Philippians 4:8)
The way we think determines the way we feel. And the way we feel determines the way we act. If we want to change our actions, just change the way we think and it will eventually change the way we act. If we are depressed, discouraged and distressed it may be because we’re thinking depressed, discouraged and distressing thoughts. That’s our choice. We don’t have to think those thoughts. If we’re acting in fearful, worried ways it’s because we’re thinking fearful, worried thoughts.
If we have to refocus our thoughts to start over to get a fresh start, that means we have to stop thinking some old patterns. Which memories are we still rehearsing that keep us from having a fresh start in life? The Bible says let go. Let go of those things. The more we hold on to that memory, the more we rehearse it, it continues to hurt us today. We have to change our mind and let go and get rid of those painful, hurtful memories of shame and guilt and other things. Of course, there are some memories that will not go away but we need to avoid focusing on these. Some are just painful and some are guilty memories and Satan will keep bringing those to our mind if we let him.
T – Trust
Trust God to help us succeed. Depend on Him. We don’t need depend on ourselves. We’ve already proven that we can’t do it on our own. That’s why we’ve failed. Some people just don’t get it. They stumble and fall and then they get up and say, “I’ll just try harder!” It’s like you go up to a wall and bang your head against it and the wall doesn’t fall down. You try it again and Bang! Again. You keep doing it thinking, “Maybe it will fall over this time.” That’s the definition of insanity – doing the same thing over and over and over and expecting different results. If we keep doing the same thing then we will keep getting the same result. We can’t change who we are, only God can do that. I am not speaking about the outward man but the inner man. The real person is the hidden person of the heart. The writer of Proverbs says “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (Proverbs 4:23) Success in the Christian life is not trying harder, but living smarter. Giving God control of our lives! “It is not by force nor by strength, but by my Spirit, says the LORD” (Zechariah 4:6 )
When someone becomes a Christian, They become a brand new person inside. He is not the same anymore. A new life has begun! God specializes in new beginnings. Jesus Christ has the power to do that. But we have to:
Stop making excuses
Take an inventory of our life
Act in faith
Refocus our thoughts
Trust God
How many of us would like to have a fresh start in our Christian life? Many of us have made many mistakes in our lives as Christians. We have experienced many setbacks and failures throughout our lives. Sometimes we allow these mistakes, these setbacks and failures to enslave us to the point that we never enjoy the full Christian life that God has given us to enjoy.
In John 10:10 Jesus said, “I have come that they (Believers) may have life, and have it to the full.” Then he goes on to tell us that there is an adversary, called the Devil, that seeks to “steal, kill and destroy” that life. The Devil will remind us of our past in order to keep us from enjoying the life that God gave us to live. The Devil does not want us to have a fresh start in life.
The good news is, God says, “I want you to have a fresh start in life, I want you to have a new beginning, I want to do something new and exciting in your life.” Maybe in the past we’ve said, “I am going to grow in my relationship with God. I am going to pray more, read my Bible more and get more involved in my church. I’m going to spend more quality time with my family. ” The list could go on. The fact is all of us have made some mistakes or we made some bad decision that hindered us from doing those things that wanted to do.
Well the good news is according to Psalm103:12, the Lord “has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. Forget about what’s happened before. He says don’t think about the past. It’s over. We need to understand that God is far more interested in our future than He is in our past. So it’s not to late to “start over”.
Maybe that is where you are right now! You feel that you have made so many mistakes, you have failed God so many times and you have sinned it all away. Now God doesn’t want anything to do with you. You feel and believe that you have no future with God. The good news is, God is saying, “ It’s not over, I have plans for your life. I am about to do something new for you. ”
Let’s look at a formula for starting over. S.T.A.R.T. Hopefully, we will remember this and pass it along to friends when they have failures. We or someone we know may have really blown it and maybe made some decisions really regret. Regardless of the failure we’ve had in our life, here’s how we can start over.
S – Stop making excuses.
If we want a fresh start in life, we have to stop making excuses for our failures. We’ve got to stop blaming other people. We’ve got to stop seeing ourselves as the victim of “our” circumstances.
Other people can hurt us, other people can harm us, and other people can scar us. But the only person that can ruin our lives is us. Nobody can ruin our lives without our permission. We have a choice and can choose how we’re going to respond to those hurts. It is hard to get people to admit when they are wrong. People do not like to admit, “I made a mistake, and I blew it.” The Bible says that the starting point is to just be honest and accept responsibility for our part in the problem.
“People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy.” (Proverbs 28:13)
T - Take An Inventory Of Our Lives
We need to take an inventory of our lives. That means we need to evaluate all our experiences. We need to look at what we have left after the failure. We need to take an inventory of our life’s experiences and learn from them.
"Have you experienced so much for nothing? Surely it was not in vain, was it?" Galatians 3:4
Learn from our mistakes. Failure can be our friend or our foe. We determine if failure will be our friend or foe by the way we react to it. We can choose to learn from it or choose to repeat it. If we learn from it then it can be our friend. However, if we don’t learn from it is our foe.
There are four kinds of experiences that God uses to shape our lives.
• He uses personal experiences. The family that you grew up in, the people you relate to. God can use your personal experience with your husband or your wife. He uses personal experiences to shape you.
• He uses vocational and educational experiences to shape you.
• He uses spiritual experiences to shape us, like coming to church, going on a retreat or reading our Bibles, having a quiet time.
• He uses painful experiences to shape us
As we take inventory of our lives in starting over, we need to ask - what have I learned? There are people 40, 50 years old but they don’t have 40 or 50 years of experience. They’ve had the same year of experience over and over. They’ve never learned anything. We need to learn from our failures.
A - Act in faith
We have to launch out into new territory. In other words “get out of the boat”. The Bible says that the key to changing anything is faith. If we want to change our circumstance, it takes faith. If we want to change our personality, it takes faith. If we want to change anything in our life, we have to have some faith.
Jesus says this in Matthew 9. ““Because of your faith, it will happen.” That is a very simple statement but it’s very powerful.
What are we expecting in life? Are things going to be better or worse? Are they going to be the same? If we act in faith then we will do something positive to ensure that we don’t repeat the same mistakes over.
To start acting in faith means we’ve got to stop having a pity party. We’ve got to stop feeling sorry for ourselves. “Poor me! I’m such a victim. Life is unfair.” Of course life is unfair! Whoever said it was fair? Jesus said, “Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows.” (John 16:33) This world is filled with sin and because of that, life is unfair. But we have to go on with life anyway.
Stop worrying about what others say or think. Proverbs 29:25 says " Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but trusting the LORD means safety.”
R - Refocus
We need to refocus our thoughts if we want to change our lives. If we want to get going again, if we want a fresh start, we need to rework the way that we think. We probably need to change our minds about a number of issues. Paul tells us to “…let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.” (Romans 12:2) and “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. (Philippians 4:8)
The way we think determines the way we feel. And the way we feel determines the way we act. If we want to change our actions, just change the way we think and it will eventually change the way we act. If we are depressed, discouraged and distressed it may be because we’re thinking depressed, discouraged and distressing thoughts. That’s our choice. We don’t have to think those thoughts. If we’re acting in fearful, worried ways it’s because we’re thinking fearful, worried thoughts.
If we have to refocus our thoughts to start over to get a fresh start, that means we have to stop thinking some old patterns. Which memories are we still rehearsing that keep us from having a fresh start in life? The Bible says let go. Let go of those things. The more we hold on to that memory, the more we rehearse it, it continues to hurt us today. We have to change our mind and let go and get rid of those painful, hurtful memories of shame and guilt and other things. Of course, there are some memories that will not go away but we need to avoid focusing on these. Some are just painful and some are guilty memories and Satan will keep bringing those to our mind if we let him.
T – Trust
Trust God to help us succeed. Depend on Him. We don’t need depend on ourselves. We’ve already proven that we can’t do it on our own. That’s why we’ve failed. Some people just don’t get it. They stumble and fall and then they get up and say, “I’ll just try harder!” It’s like you go up to a wall and bang your head against it and the wall doesn’t fall down. You try it again and Bang! Again. You keep doing it thinking, “Maybe it will fall over this time.” That’s the definition of insanity – doing the same thing over and over and over and expecting different results. If we keep doing the same thing then we will keep getting the same result. We can’t change who we are, only God can do that. I am not speaking about the outward man but the inner man. The real person is the hidden person of the heart. The writer of Proverbs says “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (Proverbs 4:23) Success in the Christian life is not trying harder, but living smarter. Giving God control of our lives! “It is not by force nor by strength, but by my Spirit, says the LORD” (Zechariah 4:6 )
When someone becomes a Christian, They become a brand new person inside. He is not the same anymore. A new life has begun! God specializes in new beginnings. Jesus Christ has the power to do that. But we have to:
Stop making excuses
Take an inventory of our life
Act in faith
Refocus our thoughts
Trust God
Sunday, December 23, 2012
Where was God on “that” Friday?
Where was God on Friday, when innocent little children were slaughtered like animals? Where was God when evil was seemingly allowed to run free on a wild rampage? He was present. No, He was VERY present. He was in the classroom. Yes, I know there are all kinds are comments, FB posts and such where God says "y’all won’t allow me in schools anymore". I understand the argument that we booted God out, but we actually don't have the authority to tell God where He can and can't be!
He was there! And He gathered those kids up in His sheltering arms, like a hen gathers chicks under her wing. I know this because Jesus said “Let the children come to me. Don’t stop them! For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to those who are like these children.” (Matthew 19:14) And He who wept at the grave of Lazarus has a heart for all His children, and none more than little children. They are safe with Jesus!
The Bible says there's one thing that gets God's fullest attention more than anything else, and that is innocent blood which cries out to Him. Where is God in such tragedy? Very present! He is all over that kind of situation, giving a dying grace which you and I have not experienced only because we've not yet needed it. God is love, and in His character we know He is there where He is needed most.
And these kids which looked forward to their Christmas party next week awoke together, not in a better place, but the BEST place, and what a class party it was and continues to be...and we, the saved, will one day join in the festivities which will last for all eternity!
“Where was God?” …
1. The same place He was when Adam rebelled in Eden – He was present, and waiting to cover his sin. (Gen 3)
Where was God when man first raised his ugly head of defiance and rebellion? Was He really present? Couldn’t He have stopped it before it began? Oh, it is not a matter of whether or not He could have. It is a matter of His design for humanity and His plan of redemption. He designed us with a freedom of choice - freewill. In His sovereign foreknowledge He made provision before the world was ever created for man’s redemption; knowing full well that man would make disastrous choices from the beginning. When Adam and Eve finally “fessed-up”, He was there with a covering for their nakedness and shame; exacting the ultimate punishment on an innocent victim to cover man’s sin. But, He was there!
“Where was God?” …
2. The same place He was when Noah built an ark – very present, and protecting him from disaster. (Gen 6-9)
Sadly, man’s rebellion did not end with Adam and Eve. Sin brought a curse to the earth and bad things happen, not because of God, but because of man's sin against God! Adam's sons, and their son’s sons for every generation followed in their rebellious path. Until such time that the wickedness of man filled the whole earth and its stench rose as an offence to the Holiness of God. Yet in the midst of such ungodliness, “But Noah found favor with the LORD.” (Gen 6:8). Here was a man, not a perfect, but a righteous man, who faithfully proclaimed the righteousness of God. (2 Pet 2) And when God, grieved by man’s wicked rebellion, determined to wipe man from the face of the earth, He furthermore determined to spare Noah and his family, and from their stock re-populate planet earth. So in mankind’s greatest natural disaster, God was on His throne protecting His own.
“Where was God?” …
3. The same place He was when Joseph was rotting in jail – ever present, accomplishing His perfect will for higher purposes than man can discern ahead of time. (Gen 37-50)
If ever anyone was misunderstood and ill treated, it was Joseph. If ever anyone suffered wrongly, it was Joseph. Yet with all his hardships, problems and abuse, Joseph was able to honestly say, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. (Genesis 50:20) This was certainly true in the case of his brothers selling him into slavery, Mrs. Potiphar falsely accusing him of attempted rape, and the lapse of memory of his Butler friend. Yet each step of the way, God was able to take Joseph’s trying circumstance and mold him ever more closely into the man he would one day become. He was there all the time, but Joseph must have wondered at times where God was, in the end all knew well He was there all the time.
“Where was God?” …
4. The same place He was when Job lost his children and everything he had {except a nagging wife} – present, and proving Himself to be God despite unfortunate circumstances. (Job 1-2)
Again we see a man, a good man, a godly man standing for what is right and hating what is wrong. Did being “blameless and upright” immune Job from problems, or even disaster? Of course not! There were evil men in his day, too, who were willing to kill and steal to get what they wanted. And, he became the special target of Satanic fury, and remember that Satan is the Destroyer who seeks to kill above all else, not discriminating between the innocent little children and the guilty man whose heart the devil likely possessed. God does not cause such tragedies, but sometimes removes His restraining hand and allows mankind to see that the wages of sin is death.
Job lost everything of value; even his precious children. Where was God? Had He turned His back on Job? Would Job return the favor by turning his back on God? No! and NO! God had not deserted Job. And Job would not curse God, even though he was urged to do so. Where was God when Job was losing all? Where was He when Job’s children were killed? Where was He when Job’s flesh was wracked with pain? Job maintained his integrity and recognized that it was God’s sovereign prerogative to give and take, and it was his duty to “Bless the name of the Lord.” And in the end God was there giving him double of all he had lost!
“Where was God?” … We could go on and on and tell of many more experiences especially the treatment of the Apostles who, with the exception John, lost their lives as a result of bringing the Good News of Jesus Christ.
But maybe the greatest insight into the heart of God when a tragedy strikes such as this week is to respond in this way to the question…
“Where was God?” …
The same place He was on another Friday when His own son's innocent life was being taken from Him. Very present – Jesus was God in the flesh, enduring the pain for the benefit of others. (Matt 27) And even the Father didn't flee the scene, but simply turned His back in those final moments when the sin of the world was placed upon His Son. Even Jesus felt forsaken, and asked God why His presence wasn't felt. But God was present, but allowed sin to run its course, and that is always a most ugly scene!
We really can’t even imagine what Jesus went through. Not just the thorns on His brow. Not just the lashes on His back. Not just the bruises from the beatings. Not just the insult of being spit on. Not just the nails in His hands and feet. Not just the spear piercing His side. All of this, yes; plus the weight of the sins of the world pressing down on His shoulders.
Where was God when His one and only Son hung dying on the cross? Didn’t He know? Were the mockers right? Shouldn't Jesus have been able to come down from that cross? Couldn’t the Father have prevented it? Was He helpless? Was He not aware? Didn’t He care? Of course He knew! Of course He could have prevented it! Of course He could have stopped it! Of course He wasn’t helpless! Of course He was aware! And, Of course He cared! The Father knew it was happening, could have stopped it, … but He didn’t. For this we are glad!
He had a larger picture in view. There was a greater good to be accomplished by the suffering and death of Jesus. Through the suffering of One, many would be made whole. Through the sacrifice of One, many would have their sins forgiven. Through the death of One, many would be made alive.
He wasn’t just sitting idle and helpless as His Son suffered. He was using the schemes of wicked, evil hearts to bring about the redemption of mankind. He reminds us that … ““My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” … “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts. (Isa 55:8-9)
God was not surprised on that Friday in Connecticut
But He was saddened by it.
God did not cause this tragedy,
But He does comfort those affected by it.
God may not prevent future acts like this,
But He will provide peace to those whose hearts are filled with hatred if they will turn to Him.
Let us pray that America responds to this wake up call, that it will be used mightily for God's purposes of good, that we will return to Him, and that multitudes will come to Jesus like a little child in faith, and hop up into His lap, and let Him fill their hearts. Let us pray against the way Satan wants to use this. Already the devil is causing us to suddenly not feel so guilty about the sins in our own lives, because, by comparison, we're nothing like this evil maniac. The world says, Hey, I shouldn't feel so guilty about my drinking, adulterating, cheating, and such. I'm not like THAT guy. I'm a good person! Even Christians are prone to try to make ourselves feel better about our own wickedness by comparing ourselves to others. "Hey, I'm no child killer!"
No, we're all evil. “For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard.” (Romans 3:23) God doesn't differentiate between big sins and little sins. We are all capable of great wickedness, and we prove it every day when we choose to do wrong...we prove ourselves as sinners in need of a Savior.
Judgment must begin in the house of God. The God who said, "if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." (2 Chronicles 7:14) reminds us today that it begins in our homes and our church. The fix isn't found in simply posting guards in our schools or throwing more money at educating minds more. Wicked sin is in the heart, and hearts must be changed. No metal detector can change the evil human heart.
I like what author Max Lucado wrote about the tragedy:
Dear Jesus,
It’s a good thing you were born at night. This world sure seems dark. I have a good eye for silver linings. But they seem dimmer lately. These killings, Lord. These children, Lord. Innocence violated. Raw evil demonstrated. The whole world seems on edge. Trigger-happy. Ticked off. We hear threats of chemical weapons and nuclear bombs. Are we one button-push away from annihilation?
Your world seems a bit darker this Christmas. But you were born in the dark, right? You came at night. The shepherds were nightshift workers. The Wise Men followed a star. Your first cries were heard in the shadows. To see your face, Mary and Joseph needed a candle flame. It was dark. Dark with Herod’s jealousy. Dark with Roman oppression. Dark with poverty. Dark with violence.
Herod went on a rampage, killing babies. Joseph took you and your mom into Egypt. You were an immigrant before you were a Nazarene. Oh, Lord Jesus, you entered the dark world of your day. Won’t you enter ours? We are weary of bloodshed. We, like the wise men, are looking for a star. We, like the shepherds, are kneeling at a manger. This Christmas, we ask you, heal us, help us, be born anew in us.
Hopefully,
Your Children
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