So many things in life
seem unexplainable. Why does a tornado destroy one house and leave another
untouched? Why does one brother excel while another struggles all his life? Why
does a tumor come back when the doctor said he thought he got it all? The list
of such questions is endless. Seen in isolation, they make no sense whatsoever.
If there is a purpose behind such tragedy, we cannot see it.
Our
danger is that we will judge the end by the beginning. Or, to be more exact, we judge what we cannot
see by what we can see. When tragedy strikes, if we can’t see a purpose, we
assume there isn’t one.
But the very opposite is
true. We ought to judge the beginning by the end. Here is where Romans 8:28 gives us some real help. Paul says, “And we
know that God causes everything to work together for the good.” The phrase work together
in Greek is where we
get our English word synergy from it. And what is synergy? It is what
happens when you put two or more elements together to form something brand new
that neither could form separately. It’s what happens when I make a big pot of
Brenda’s enchilada soup. I put a bunch
of different ingredients in the soup.
Several I would never eat by themselves – hominy – ugh, Rotel – hot, so
I don’t think so, cumin, no way. But all combined together make for a great pot
of soup. That’s synergy–the combination
of many elements to produce a positive result. (BTW: See end of lesson for recipe.)
That’s what Paul means
when he says that God causes all things to “work
together." Many of the things
that make no sense when seen separately are in fact working together to produce
something good in our life. There is a divine synergy even in the
darkest moments, a synergy that produces something positive. And the “good”
that is ultimately produced could not happen any other way.
Paul is saying that our
experience is like making soup. God begins with the different materials of
life, including some parts that seem to serve no good purpose. Like “cumin”. When putting all the items in the pot and
applying heat we get good results. That
is how we must look at life. We must not judge the end by the beginning,
but rather the beginning by the end.
This is the crux of the
matter. Paul says that “all
things work together for good.” But what is the “good” he is talking about? For
most of us, “good” equals things like health, happiness, solid relationships,
long life, money, food on the table, meaningful work, and a nice place to live.
In general, we think the “good” life means a better set of circumstances.
Once again, that’s not
necessarily the biblical viewpoint. In this case we don’t have to wonder what Paul means. He defines
it for us in the very next verse: “For God
knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son” (Romans 8:29). That makes it very clear. God
has a plan for each of his children. That certain end is the “good” of Romans 8:28. It is that we might be like Jesus.
Put plainly, God is at work in our life making us like
Jesus. IF we let him! Anything
that makes us more like Jesus is good. Anything that pulls us away from Jesus is
bad. When Paul says that all things work together for good, he is not saying
that the tragedies and heartaches of life will always produce a better set of
circumstances. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t. But God is not
committed to making us happy and successful. He is committed to making us
like his Son so that we can be with him for eternity. And whatever it takes to
make us more like Jesus is good.
Everything that happens
to us-the tragedies, the unexplained circumstances, even the stupid choices we make-all
of it is ingredients for God to make us like His son. He will not give up even
when we do.
The main problem we have
fully understanding Romans 8:28. Our good and God’s good are not the same.
We want happiness and fulfillment and peace and long life. Meanwhile, God is
at work in us and through us and by everything that happens to us to transform
us into the image of his Son.
Does that include the
worst that happens to us? Yes.
Does that include the things that hurt us deeply? Yes.
Does that include the times when we are heartbroken? Yes.
Does that include the times when we sin? Yes.
Does that include the times when we doubt God? Yes.
Does that include the times when we curse him to his face? Yes.
Does that include the things that hurt us deeply? Yes.
Does that include the times when we are heartbroken? Yes.
Does that include the times when we sin? Yes.
Does that include the times when we doubt God? Yes.
Does that include the times when we curse him to his face? Yes.
He is always at work. He
is never deterred by us. Nothing happens to us outside his control. God
use all these things even when we don’t believe it.
There are many things we
don’t know. We don’t know why babies die or why cars wreck or why planes crash
or why families break up or why good people get sick and suddenly die. But this
we do know-God is at work, and he has not forgotten us.
We must understand
limitation of this verse. Notice the last phrase of Romans 8:28. It is a promise to “those who love God
and are called according to his purpose for them.” That is an all-important limitation. This verse is true of
Christians and only of Christians. It is not a blanket promise to the whole
human race. Why? Because God’s purpose is to make his children like his Son.
This raises a very
important question: Have we ever responded to God’s call? We either answer “Yes” or “No” to this
question. There is no middle ground. Until we can answer “Yes”,
this verse does not apply to us.
1. We must not try to explain the unexplainable.
Sometimes in our zeal to
protect God, we try to explain why bad things happen to good people. That’s
almost always a bad idea. We are like little children looking into the face
of an infinitely wise Father. It is not possible that we should understand all
he does. It is enough that we love him and know that he is there. We need to be
very careful with our feeble attempts to justify the mysterious ways of God.
Better to say nothing than to speak of things we know nothing about.
2. We must understand that God’s values and our values are not always
the same.
“My thoughts are
nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. “And my ways are far
beyond anything you could imagine. For
just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your
ways and my thoughts
higher than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9)
God values His children
– their souls and where they will spend eternity. We tend to value things like houses, jobs,
cars, vacation and the list could go on and on. We must understand that we will
often not understand at all. Let’s be
clear on this point. We are not called to praise God for evil, sin, and death. But
we can praise God for the good he can work in the darkest days of life. Romans 8:28 is not teaching us to call evil good or simply to smile through
the tears and pretend everything is OK. But it is teaching us that no
matter what happens to us-no matter how terrible, no matter how unfair-our God
is there. He has not left us.
Can we still believe in Romans 8:28? Let answer this question with another. What is our alternative?
If we don’t believe in Romans 8:28, what do we believe in? Fate? Chance? The impersonal forces of
nature?
This does not answer
every question. But it does answer the big question: Does God know what he is
doing? Yes, he does, and we know him, and that is enough.
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ENCHILADA
SOUP
2 lbs. ground chuck - Brown meat,
drain of grease and add a teaspoon of cumin and chopped onions. Cook
until onion is “clear”. Then add this
mixture to pot and then these ingredients:
2 cans - Pinto beans w/jalepanos (Trappey’s)
2 cans - Hominy (white or yellow)
2 pkgs - Taco
seasoning (El Paso)
2 pkgs - Hidden
Valley Ranch Party DIP mix
1 sm.can - Green Chilies (chopped, El Paso)
2 cans - Rotel (mild but can use hotter if desired)
This is what will make soup “hot”
2 cans -
Black Beans (Green Giant)
4 or 5 cups of water *
Cook for about an hour.
*My pot will not hold that much water,
so I rinse several cans out with water and add to mixture. Then I add more
water as it cooks -- if it needs more.